Popular Nigerian reality TV star and disc jockey, Tolanibaj, has revealed that she is ready to embrace marriage as she no longer finds excitement in nightlife and clubbing.
The 31-year-old former Big Brother Naija housemate made the disclosure in a recent Snapchat video, where she admitted that the club scene no longer gives her the thrill it once did.
“I need to start being honest with myself. I no longer enjoy clubbing. I keep forcing it but… I want to see if I can experience some kind of excitement. I need excitement in my life. I’m tired of clubbing. I don’t want to be outside,” she said.
Tolanibaj added that she now envisions a different lifestyle built around companionship rather than partying. “What am I looking for outside if I have a partner? We can be outside together, maybe travelling. I’m done clubbing. I don’t feel like pretending to be having fun in the club anymore. I think it’s time to get married.”
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However, the reality star admitted that marriage comes with its uncertainties and challenges. She described it as a “scary commitment,” noting that she remains unsure about how much she would enjoy it in the long term.
Despite her concerns, her comments sparked conversations among fans, many of whom praised her for embracing growth and desiring a more settled lifestyle. Others pointed out that her openness about marriage pressures and fears resonates with many young adults navigating similar choices.
Tolanibaj, who has built a strong career as both a media personality and DJ since her Big Brother Naija appearance, has often been candid about her personal struggles and aspirations. Her latest declaration adds to her reputation for being outspoken about her evolving lifestyle choices.

