Reality TV star and Big Brother Naija Season 7 winner, Ijeoma Otabor, popularly known as Phyna, has penned an emotional tribute to her late sister, Ruth Otabor, while also celebrating Ruth’s child who just turned six.
In an Instagram post on Thursday, Phyna poured out her grief and gratitude, describing Ruth as more than just a sister. “Today, I want to speak from the deepest part of my heart about someone whose presence shaped my life in ways words can barely capture my beloved sister, Ruth. Ruth was more than a sister; she was a confidant, a safe place, a protector, and a quiet strength in every storm. Her laughter had a way of softening the hardest moments, and her kindness wasn’t something she performed it was who she was to her core. She carried love with so much grace, gave without hesitation, and taught me what it means to show up for those you care about.”
Reflecting on cherished memories, she added: “There are memories of her that live with me like warm light moments of comfort, jokes we shared, silent understandings, and the way she believed in me even when I doubted myself. Losing her left a space that no one else can ever fill, but loving her left an imprint that can never fade. I honor her in the way I live, in the strength I gather, and in every step forward I take. Ruth, your name is stitched into my story forever, and I will continue to celebrate you in everything I become. You are loved beyond words, remembered beyond time, and missed beyond measure.”
Phyna then shifted her focus to a bittersweet celebration — her late sister’s child turning six. She wrote, “Today also marks a beautiful milestone Ruth’s first child turns 6! Happy Birthday to this bright, growing star! You carry a piece of your mother’s light, and watching you become your own person is a blessing. May your life be filled with joy, wisdom, laughter, protection, and endless opportunities. You are surrounded by love, and your mother’s spirit lives proudly through you. Shine, little one this world is better with you in it. I love you❤”
The reality star, who rose to fame in 2022 after clinching the BBNaija “Level Up” crown, also reflected on her personal journey of four years in the spotlight. She wrote, “Four Years of Love, Fame & Family – From the very first day till now, it has been a ride of highs, lessons, memories, growth, and grace. My fans my people you stood by me in noise and in silence, in celebration and in controversy, in mistakes and in milestones. You didn’t just support me; you became my family, and together we built something powerful. To everyone who has loved me, rooted for me, prayed for me, protected me, grown with me, thank you. Ruth, your memory lives in me🕊 I love you baby❤”
The tribute comes weeks after Ruth tragically passed away following complications from an accident involving a truck linked to Dangote Group. Ruth was laid to rest on Saturday, September 13, 2025, in Ogun State following the accident which occurred in August.